tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36128951.post4569867376378749610..comments2024-01-19T14:17:05.124-08:00Comments on The Gorman Blog: Very Very Sad MomentPeter Gormanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04010025416629344748noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36128951.post-34327182072480509202009-03-13T20:25:00.000-07:002009-03-13T20:25:00.000-07:00My first thought was this: "What can I say? You've...My first thought was this: "What can I say? You've said a lot here. It is sad, yes, difficult, yes- but deep down inside, there is resolution."<BR/><BR/>On a practical note, Sierra will not hold this tightly. In time it will fade and change in her memory, especially after you make it up in grand fashion and take her on a fantastic bike ride on a wonderful day, making a special Sierra dinner, giving her all the attention she needs and then some. (including a simple explanation about the situation.)<BR/><BR/>On the other hand, Italo needed you. Needed you alone for some special guidance. It appears as though it wasn't about a simple fun day in the park for him. And ignoring that might've been worse than the need to go on without Sierra. <BR/><BR/>It seems as though something of a certain impending importance needed to be addressed, privately and so forth, and if it wasn't, than it may have boiled over, or been something that would linger and cause both you and Italo greater confusion. And it probably wasn't/isn't something that could have been made up a few weeks later with a sunny day bike ride and some ice cream.<BR/><BR/>Or maybe I'm way off - I have no idea what Italo needed.<BR/><BR/>Regardless, I feel you made the right decision.<BR/><BR/>Just make sure you have a Super Sierra Day, sometime when the sun is shining big time.<BR/><BR/>But don't sweat it too much. sweating it too much might cloud ideas for the forthcoming festivities.Morganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15319475786834084387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36128951.post-25403872895496264122009-03-11T10:59:00.000-07:002009-03-11T10:59:00.000-07:00Peter:This is indeed a sad story, but I'm sure tha...Peter:<BR/><BR/>This is indeed a sad story, but I'm sure that all is forgiven. You are a good man.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17391301003007292277noreply@blogger.com