My friend John passed
So I got a call a few days ago from someone I did not know. He said that
my friend JOHN had died and that I was on the list of people to inform.
I thanked him and hung up.
John came on my trip to the jungle
about 4-5 years ago. He had signed up for it a year earlier but never
showed up in Iquitos. I called to find out what happened and his sister
told me that John was in the hospital: He weighed over 400 pounds and
had gone on a starvation diet to get down to 300 to do the trip, but when he reached 300 his body went into shock and he wound up sick. So he was fine, but would not make the trip.
A year later, at about 300 or just less, he came. My trip is not
physically difficult but there is a lot of climbing in and out of
canoes, some walking, some hiking. He did the parts he could do, and he
did them well. For a real softie he was a tough ass motherfucker. I
liked him.
After the trip he'd send me cards for Christmas, Thanksgiving, my birthday, St. Pat's day. He was a wonderful gentleman
in the old school style. If he read a good book he'd write me a postcard
suggesting I read it. When we occasionally spoke he was always engaged.
He had colon cancer when I met him and though the person who
called me about his death didn't go into it, I suspect that's what
killed him.
Good people come in all sizes and shapes. He once
wrote the lyrics for a song for an up and coming music person and they
were wonderful. He'd laugh like nobody's business. He was one of the
good guys and today I sang for him to help him cross--though he probably
did not need any help--and my friend Drew, who ditched this plane about
18 months ago and now helps people find the bridge to cross to get to
the other side, had him well in hand, so I think he's good.
Good bye, John. It was my pleasure to know you. Thanks.
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